I'm fun, sensitive, sincere, classy, passionate
about life, happy, adventurous, spontaneous, laid
back, love to dance, love comedy, love the out
doors, health insurance rep, volunteer for a
senior citizen home, love to travel, and ect. I
have high standards and will not compromise
promises that I make with God in the temple. I
refuse to live with out the the gospel in my life
even for a day. It makes me happy and I know that
this gospel is true. Here's my list below. I know
exactly what I want in life and who I'm looking
for. I was taught that you marry who you date. So,
I date to marry. toward every guy I date or even
think about dating,I think to myself (just in
case, future wise): Can I imagine my life for the
next 50-60 plus yrs with this same person? Do I
get excited just to see him every time? What kind
of best friend ,husband, and father would he be?
Is he boring or does he have hobbies and
interests? What are his passions in life? Does he
make me laugh and smile? Does he think my faults
are cute? Does he love me unconditionally? am I
comfortable around him enough to burp or fart in
front of him? Does he constantly bring me up or
down? What kinds of pets does he want to have, or
would rather have none at all? Does he feel that
pets should be in the home or outside? How would
he treat me and love me as his best friend, wife,
and the mother of his children ? Would he still
take me out on dates after we're married? What are
his priorities like. In my opinion they should
be:(1)God, (2) Family, (3) everything else. Does
he like children? Does he want children? does he
want a big family or a small family? does he want
to live in the city or country? Does he take care
of himself? Is he and would he be mentally,
physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive
toward me and our children? does he eat right?
Does he exercise? Is he racist? Is he prejudice?
Does he have alot of debt? Does he work well with
money and finances because I stink at it? Does he
have bad habits like: smoke, drink, do drugs ?
What kind of qualities does he have that I want
installed in my children? How would he treat his
children? would he spend time with them to teach
about life in general and play with them and go to
their activities and love them enough to
discipline them? Would he love them
unconditionally? What kind of wife is he looking
for? Does he want a 2 income home where the wife
works and children are raised by the day care or
someone else? or Would he rather I stay home and
raise our children and keep the home organized and
clean to present a good atmosphere for the
children to feel like it is a safe haven from the
world , a place any child can come and feel loved?
How does he feel about adoption and foster care?
Can he provide for a family? Does he have anger
issues, and if so how is he dealing to get over
them by forgiving and forgetting? How does he
talk? Does he cuss and use vulgar language? Does
he watch porn? How does he feel about gay's and
lesbians? does he believe in abortion? does he
believe in death penalty? Can I trust my children
alone with him for a few days just in case? Does
he believe in God? Is he of the Mormon faith? If
not ,(1) will he respect and support me in my
believes, and (2) will he support me as I raise
the children in the Mormon faith? How does he love
and treat others who he comes in contact with on a
daily basis? Is he selfish, self-righteous,
self-centered, or does he put others first before
himself and does he have a humbling attitude? Can
he protect me and my family? Is he willing to
fight for our country's freedom? Would he do just
about anything for his family?What are his
strengths and weaknesses? What are his pet peeves?
does he have a positive or negative attitude? Do
we work well together? How does he treat and talk
about the important women in his life? How does he
react in different situations in life?
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In my spare time, I enjoy watching pro basketball
games. My favorite team is the lakers. I enjoy
writing history fiction stories. I want to be on
the New Yorks top ten best seller list. I like to
:dance-swing, latin, other; watch- drama, comedy,
and action movies; host theme parties-death by
chocolate, skittles, "shrimp" cocktail,
toga, ect ; Watch favorite t.v. shows-csi,
svu,numbers, close to home, criminal minds, mama's
family and friends re-runs;at the moment the
majority of my time goes to researching and
writing my book. Thank you for looking at my
profile.
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