Talking about one self tends to be a little difficult. Let me start with my background which is kind of complicated,my Mum and dad were from two different parts of the planet. I am indigenous to New Zealand that makes me a Maori (a title for the indigenous people of New Zealand). I was born a dual citizen of both the U.S. and New Zealand -- the U.S. through my mother, and New Zealand through my father. My mum is a native America, she was Sacramento, California.. I spent most of my life in England mostly on schooling and traveled back to my homeland..not so frequently anyway.just moved to the state.

"What you see is what you get" I'm just authentically me. No games. No drama. No negativity. All of which seem to be everyone's concern. Just a happy, fun-loving, grateful and compassionate person, who tries to encourage the same in the people around me. My life, thus far, has taken me to some of the highest highs and some of the lowest lows, making it very easy to know what has meaning, and it certainly isn't what most seem to convince themselves has importance.
I'm told quite often by people that they just feel good being around me, or they feel better about a particular problem that they've got after having talked to me about it. I think that's such a great compliment. I care an awful lot about everyone and everything, I work hard, I laugh harder and I love harder than that. And, I'd like to share all of those "me's" I mentioned with someone. Someone who will also just be themselves. I'll meet you where you are in life and we'll figure it out from there.

I don't have a cookie cutter recipe for what I'm looking for, I only know how I want to feel. And I can't describe that either...in fact, I think to try and put it into words would diminish it somehow. I'll just know it when I feel it. I can tell you that I'm at a really good place in my life and don't come from a place of 'need', but of one of 'want' of a relationship, with someone that adds to my life, and me to theirs. I can tell you that, of course, I want a person with integrity. Dishonesty in all its forms is a deal breaker for me.I'm looking for someone who's emotionally generous, loves to both give and receive affection and understands that being happy is much better than being right. Someone who is conscious of how they live their life and places value on kindness, happiness, gratitude and love. And they should have, or at least enjoy, a good sense of humor, as I love to laugh. I hope to make them laugh too.

am an outdoor person and i enjoy the being alone with that special person. Anything can be fun when your with someone you love, like swimming , movies, watching or playing sports and lots more.