Keep your ears open, maybe she's looking for me
too. I am a long time survivor of HIV; and
optimistic about finding love... and hoping
through the grapevine maybe I will find her.
What hurts most in life is not being able to share
in who I am. I hate the idea of all I have lost
out on so far being alone; but I guess I had to
sort out things in life and bring myself to the
point where I could offer up all that I am, and
all that I will become.
I am a very likable person, trustworthy,
responsible: however, I need a teammate and a
hopefully somebody to love. I am in it for the
long road, whenever I find a mate. I'm a nurturer
at heart, sensitive to a fault, lack masculine
power-play qualities, and empathetic beyond what
seems humanly fair. I recycle more than I throw in
the trash, compost anything I can, and I eat more
vegetables than I do meat.
I would like a girl with a head on her shoulders,
someone who smiles a lot and can make me laugh
[well in a perfect world], and I hope I can do the
same for her. Slender preferably, and shorter of
course (I'm 6'2"). Nationality is not
important nor hair color. I like a woman who
wears dresses and knows how to be a lady. No mean
girls... that's just not my style. No players or
cigarette smokers either. I think we know where I
am going with this...you know the gospel
principles, and of our strengths as husband and
wife - so I think you know what I hope to find in
a wife.
If your thinking I am the guy to play games with,
toy with my emotions, take advantage for your own
personal gain without ever following through with
love/relationship-- I hate to inform you; but, I
have a keen sense for things like that... and you
wont get far.
I would also like to admit I am looking for a
woman that understands we (as a couple) will have
differences. We must respect those differences and
build each other up. I want a woman with the
understanding that will MUST overcome any
obstacles. I do not want a woman who thinks
divorce is okay. Endure till the end no matter
what will come across our paths in our whole life.
there is no easy way to the long term of things
and as some of the older couples tell me- it's
sometimes hard and difficult... enough said. You
will have to be a patient woman willing to
understand me, my life has had an unfair amount of
challenges, and most every woman who hears my life
story cry's on me - so I don't talk much about it
anymore.
I also DO NOT want to find a girl who throws
things when she gets mad, or yells and go stopping
off and unwilling to resolve differences. I can't
remember what movie it was; but, they said:
"never go to bed angry".
If we have to stay up all night; therefor tired
for work in the morning...than so be it. I can be
stubborn to such things. I must admit, I do
however have an understanding nature and not bull
headed, I admit when I am wrong and back down if
that is the right thing to do.
I am working towards my endowment this end of year
2013/early 2014.
I love growing in the gospel. I am active, filled
with Spiritual knowledge. And my greatest strength
is my compassion for people. Dolly Parton has
often been heard saying: she has a rule - nobody
cries alone in her presence...I can relate. I was
baptized in June 2004. My commitment to God is
stronger than it has ever been in my life. I am
dedicated to making change in my life, and have
seen the desires of my heart change and my vision
for the future. Missionaries told me once; that,
with great experiences and trials comes great
strength. That is the truth my brethren, thank
you for coming to my door a knocking that day
Elder Andrea and Elder Pace.
I think: All People are wonderful beings, and our
friends if we do not harden our hearts. My life
motto: "I never met a man I didn't
like", Will Rogers. There is profound
truth in that statement. There is something good
in everyone, you just have to take the time to
extract it.
I'm looking for a woman who has never been
married, younger than I, and NEVER had an
abortion. I would have a real issue with that last
one...so please, no deceit - because if I find out
you did have one...it may end our marriage. And
lastly: inner beauty is more important than good
looks to me...but not to be confused - both are
nice to have.
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My passion is in my landscaping. I find peace and
good therapy from pulling weeds and creating. I
now have a 4,000 gallon koi pond with a waterfall
which I love listening to the sounds of the water
rushing over the waterfall, and feeding the fish.
There is much quietness and peace around me. My
yard is small, but it's my space on this earth
which I have been able to created and hope to
share my space with someone....someday.
My other great passion is my writing, since I was
in the 9th or 10th grade I have kept a journal,
since college it has turned into more than just an
expression of feelings, but of thoughts and
understandings. Writing has become a second life
form from which I live. Someday I hope I can be a
published author-till then I will just keep
building up my strengths and living my
experiences. My book title will be:
"Tornado In The
Garden."
I am basically an artistic person - in everything
I do: paint/ create/ write/ etc.
I have Jack Russell dogs, a couple of cats, birds,
and a couple of fish tanks. I like life around
me, and since I don't watch TV [much]- the animals
give wonderful background noise into my otherwise
intolerable silence.
I love long walks, camping (sleeping on the ground
in a tent). Traveling across the USA, taking in
the Arts,and being mesmerized by the gift of
life.
Won't you come take this walk with me and dance
our way through life [or do you know someone who
might be looking for me - and HIV+ healthy
guy???]
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