After a separation of over a year and a half, I am a recently divorced mom of two teen boys who live with me. I've embarked on the long and satisfying journey of discovering myself. If you're divorced, I will require the name and phone number or email of your ex-wife and I will contact her. You're welcome to my ex's info if you really want it. I prefer cleanliness, integrity, perseverance, worthiness, kindness, transparency, and generosity of spirit to gaslighting, slovenly, obscure, or obsequious behavior. I expect to give the same. There is always my story, your story, and the real story somewhere in between. God has had my back the last few years. I owe Him my allegiance.

Multitudinous! Some examples include music (singing, playing, writing), reading, writing, studying (e.g. languages and cultures, psychology, mathematics), teaching, indexing, camping, hiking, volunteering (e.g. Patriot Camp), visiting museums, etc.