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Transplant Californian, been in Utah 5 years (with
no plan to leave anytime soon). Loving the
mountains and loving the slower paced life than
what I had in CA. Don't get me wrong... LOVE the
Bay Area... and will continue to hold my CALI-GIRL
status, regardless of where I live! :-) Was a
teacher for a while, but have taken some time off
to try other things. Ironically.... not liking it!
:-) I've been working in psychiatric facilities
(residential treatment and acute hospital) for the
last few years, and am SOOOOOO ready to get back
in the classroom. So, next year, I'll be heading
back to teaching.. and I can't wait! :-)
Brilliant, hard working, LOVES children, easy
going, self-improving, athletic, creative, fun
loving, friendly, sexual, sensual, loyal,
articulate, spiritual, goal oriented.... all of
the above!
The other day, a friend asked me what I wanted in
a relationship... and what I can offer someone I
am in a relationship with. So... below, you can
read my "list" that resulted from that
conversation. And, the best part of this list...
is that I created it by looking at my life, and
how I enjoy showing up for people...(and would
love for someone to show up for me as well).
* I want to be physically attracted to him:
beautiful deep eyes, smile, athletic body, nice
hair.
* I want to be comfortable around him. I need to
feel safe to open up and be myself and be able to
talk about whats on my mind.
* I need to know that I can trust him, and that he
is being honest with me... no matter what.
* I want him to tell me I'm beautiful... and mean
it!
* I need to know my opinions are valued,
considered, appreciated and safe.
* I need to be able to express myself creatively
and sexually.
* I want to be nurtured, thought highly of,
surprised, cared for, uplifted, encouraged, and
appreciated.
* I want someone who will leave me love notes,
surprises, dinner at work, texts/pics... someone
who thinks about me, and shows me in unique
ways.
* I need someone who sees those important in my
life as important to them... if only because they
are important to me.
* I need someone who shows up and treats me the
way I treat others, and will welcome and
appreciate my showing up for them that way too.
* I need to be respected, listened to, honored,
appreciated, and valued for my life's experiences,
education, opinions, etc.
* I want someone who treats me like his queen,
deserves my treating him as my king, and sees us
as equal in our partnership.
* I want someone who can't keep their hands off of
me, and also knows how/when to be appropriate with
physical interactions.
* I need someone who wants to spoil and pamper
me...not just to get sex, but because they love me
that much, and want me to know I am special to
them.
* I need someone who respects my relationships and
friendships, wants me to cultivate them, and has
similar friendships of his own.
* I want someone who speaks kindly and is
uplifting, supportive, encouraging, loving, caring
and honest.
* I need someone emotionally healthy and
spiritual... and wants to work together towards
creating further health within the
relationship.
* I want someone who will do things WITH me: gym,
grocery shopping, cooking, vacations, road trips,
schedules, cleaning, errands, sports, etc.
****Fun, Spontaneous, Easy-Going, Hardworking,
Driven, Goal-Oriented, Financially Abundant,
Spiritual, Deep, Passionate, Sexual, Respectful,
Trustworthy, Honest, Loyal, Committed!****
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