Hi, I've written many of these, this time I'll be more direct. I've been living in Sweden for some years but before that I lived 9 years in Utah and 2 in Hawaii, but recently I thought about moving back to the States, France or even Tahiti, long story, I'm kind of the international type who had to learn to adapt. So distance isn't necessary a problem for me.

Being single in your 40's is a steep price to pay. You're less prepared, your options are more limited and the darn clock is ticking again or whatever that really means. In fact, I've become more prudent and realistic but yet more open to suggestions and new ideas. The trick is to find the right balance between wisdom and intuition; to wait for that moment when everything is in synch, that moment when you know that it's now or never.

I like many things but can only do a few, life is just kind of short.