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Seems like we all say the same things about
ourselves on these single sites. And I hope that
we all do pretty much have the same standards.
Here is what I think is unique about me.
1) I can spell unique correctly without looking it
up in the dictionary or using spell check.
2) Some of my FAVORITES web sites:
Backwoods Magazine
Exploring Estuaries
Fibonacci Numbers John Taylor Gatto
Kids Guide to Easy String Figures
Native American History
Philadelphia Experiment
Scalar Electromagnetics
The Secret
Official String Theory
Virtual Cave
Of course the Church web site is in there but most
of you probably have it book marked. And the
singles sites, Primary, genealogy, library,
mapquest, etc...
3) I like baseball. Like to listen to it even if
I’m not paying attention to it. There is just
something about the sounds of a baseball game.
And hey, let's face it, those guys look pretty
good in uniform.
I am not your conventional Molly Mormon. I am
adventurous, a bit of a gypsy. Colorful. I love
the gospel, my Father in Heaven and Jesus Christ
and I have a strong testimony but I do not
consider myself a typical latter-day saint.
However, this does not mean that I don't keep my
baptismal and temple covenants.
I am looking for someone who is somewhat
unconventional also. Someone who is fun and
adventurous, spontaneous. Someone who likes to
GO. On the move.
I have lived in several different areas of the US.
I have lived in SoCal for six years. I am more
than willing to relocate.
I have two absolutely beautiful daughters. I
don’t have that opinion just because they are
mine. In fact, life might be a bit easier for me
and them if they weren’t so gorgeous. I
recently had my first experience of some guy
coming on to my barely 13 year old daughter who
looks like she is at least 16 and who thinks she
is 20. We’d gone out to dinner and went for an
ice cream cone for desert. I told my girls that
since they had just eaten a huge meal that they
could have a single dip in a sugar cone. But NO,
my oldest wanted a double dip in a waffle cone.
Well, here comes this kid along who thinks he
wants to buy her the cone. I politely tell him
Thanks but no (I’m from the south, so I am VERY
polite.) that she does not need a bigger cone.
And my daughter is just pouting so she doesn’t
even notice him. Well, he keeps on offering to
buy my poor little mistreated daughter an ice
cream cone. He even follows us up to the register
after her cone is dipped and ready to go.
Finally, the guy behind the counter tells him that
he learned long ago that if the parent says no,
it’s no use to keep asking. (Wasn’t that nice
of him to try to help me out.) Well, it’s all I
can do not to laugh in this kid’s face. I’m
thinking, boy, you ain’t got a snowball’s
chance in h?!! with my daughter. Now he looked
nice enough. Dressed okay, clean but he had these
gold teeth with diamonds!!! Four of them. Right
in front. What they call a ‘grill’ and it did
kinda look like the grill of a car. So my
youngest, who he is totally ignoring, looks up at
him and says WOW you’ve got a grill! I mean
this is getting funnier by the second. He can’t
take his eyes off my older daughter and she is
totally oblivious to him. Anyway, he starts
telling us about his ‘grill’ that he is so
proud of. And I’m thinking that this grill of
his sure does make an excellent target for someone
who might want to punch him out. I’ve just got
to get out of there before I bust a gut. So we
leave and I start laughing and my girls don’t
even get it.
So what does this have to do with you. Well,
I’m looking for a husband who would be willing
to sleep outside my daughter’s bedroom window on
the cold hard ground in a sleeping bag, maybe with
a tent while I sleep on the carpeted floor outside
her bedroom door probably on a comfy blow up
mattress to keep her safe. We may not have to do
this for a few years but I think it is inevitable.
I may have to get me another husband to sleep
outside the other daughter’s bedroom window too
but for now I’m not as worried about her. You
game????
As I said, I’m a bit of a gypsy. This means I
live to move around a lot. After being settled
for six years, it’s time for a new adventure. I
also said I am colorful. I like to dress in
color, no drab for me. I like red, hot pink or
purple nail polish. No french manicure for me.
I’m very content with myself and don’t feel I
NEED a husband. I just think it would be nice and
honestly think I need to grow in the area of
living with someone other than my daughters. Ya
know, we are here to learn to be eternal
companions. Supposedly, it is easier to learn
this type of thing in this life than in the next.
And I definitely wouldn’t mind cuddling with
someone.
So I may need to lose a few pounds but I like food
and I like to eat. Maybe if I had something else
to, gee, I don’t know, help me out here. I
don’t want to get censored. I’m sure food
fulfils some need that is not being met elsewhere.
I like to do genealogy. Recently, I found my
great-grandmother on the 1880 census. And then I
found my great-grandfather on the same census
living next door. It was so cool. Can’t ya
just see it. Him going over to borrow a hoe or
asking if he can help her pluck that chicken she
just chopped the head off of. Of course, he’d
help her catch it first. By the middle of the
year they were married and eventually had nine
children. I’ve known of them before but I
didn’t know they were neighbors. Neither did
anyone else in my family. I also found a son of
one of my great aunts that died when he was 10.
My mother never knew he existed because he was
born years before she was. I guess no one ever
talked about him. It is really neat to find these
people. I also need a husband to help me do the
temple work for my ancestors. I am first
generation LDS. I can do the female work but I
could use some help in the male side.
I’m not sure I believe in this soul mate thing.
I thought I did but a few years ago President
Hinckley gave a talk in General Conference where
he said that he didn’t believe in it. He thinks
we should find someone that has the same standards
as we do, someone who we think we could live with,
then marry them and work on the relationship..
I’m usually not that easily persuaded but
President Hinckley is a little wiser than me. I
may just have to trust him on this one.
I think I am a very spiritual person. In my
situation, I must really listen to and follow the
Spirit in my daily life. It is not easy being a
single parent but Heavenly Father blesses me with
inspiration on a regular basis. Currently, I have
several callings in the church but it is not
important which callings just that I try my best
to magnify them. As for my testimony, suffice it
so say that I love my Heavenly Father and Jesus
Christ for all they have done for me and continue
to do. My testimony is very personal and sacred
to me. It is not something that I write about on
a singles site. However, I am glad to share it
with others when the Spirit moves me.
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